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Friday, 25 July 2014

GENERATION GAP SHOULD BE REDUCED TO BE GENERATION FRIENDLY

One has to be friendly but also fair, frank and flexible. Employ the Four Fs in relationships. Educate each other about discipline. Discipline is not against freedom; it harnesses freedom. Just like the banks of the river help the river to flow towards the ocean. Young people may feel discipline is snatching their freedom. This is not true. Bringing up children involves education. Don't think that they will immediately understand. It takes time but you should be an empowering parent.
The world has both the right and wrong modes operating. Good parenting is teaching them to take the good and leave the bad. All parents are not right all the time; their intention may be good but possibly parents may do more harm to children if they encourage division; that would create conflict and hence pain. So, parents' intention may be good but they also have to inwardly cleanse themselves.Use the power of love and then you will know how to deal with old people. Yes, as they get old they behave like children. Give them love and understanding. Learn to enjoy dealing with them. They are also going through transition. Be committed and compassionate then you will get the right mode to help them. "He gives not the best, who gives the most but he gives the most who gives the best". Learn to give your best. Be the giver and then that giving itself enhances the quality of life. What is wrong if you pamper your parents? After all it is their second childhood. Don't you pamper your children? Don't use too much of logic but just shower love.Love is the only way to win heart of any person at any age so love your self and love others to live better life